Motivation Doesn’t Exist

Motivation Doesn’t Exist

  We have been sold a massive, exhausting lie about how things get done. We are told that before we can tackle a difficult project, get back in the gym, or have a hard conversation, we first need to find our motivation. We treat motivation like it is a sudden...
Numbing vs Resting

Numbing vs Resting

  You clock out on Friday afternoon, completely tapped out. You spend the next 48 hours doing absolutely nothing. You sink into the couch, scroll through your phone for hours, binge-watch a show you barely pay attention to, or have a few drinks to take the edge...
The Cost of Silent Boundaries

The Cost of Silent Boundaries

Someone asks you to take on an extra project at work, or your partner asks you to handle a heavy logistical task on your only day off. You are already completely exhausted. Your bandwidth is entirely tapped out. But instead of stating that reality, you just swallow...
The Quiet Victory of a Reliable Man

The Quiet Victory of a Reliable Man

We spend so much time chasing the monumental moments. We are conditioned to measure our worth by the massive milestones: the promotions, the big financial wins, the heavy burdens we managed to carry through a crisis, or the rare moments we step in to save the day. We...
The Weight of Unmade Decisions

The Weight of Unmade Decisions

A lot of men are walking around completely exhausted, assuming the drain is purely physical. We blame the demanding schedule, the lack of sleep, or the relentless pace of the daily grind. We try to fix the fatigue with an extra cup of coffee, a weekend off, or a new...