Our Emotional Survival

Our Emotional Survival

We pride ourselves on being self-reliant in almost every area of our lives, but most of us have a massive, glaring blind spot when it comes to our emotional survival. If we look closely at how we operate, our partner is usually the only person on earth who truly knows...
The Maintenance Phase of Adulthood

The Maintenance Phase of Adulthood

When we are younger, life is defined by massive milestones. We are constantly building. We are chasing the career, finding the partner, securing the house, and trying to get our feet underneath us. Every year brings a massive, noticeable shift in the landscape of our...
Motivation Doesn’t Exist

Motivation Doesn’t Exist

  We have been sold a massive, exhausting lie about how things get done. We are told that before we can tackle a difficult project, get back in the gym, or have a hard conversation, we first need to find our motivation. We treat motivation like it is a sudden...
The Maintenance Phase of Adulthood

Numbing vs Resting

  You clock out on Friday afternoon, completely tapped out. You spend the next 48 hours doing absolutely nothing. You sink into the couch, scroll through your phone for hours, binge-watch a show you barely pay attention to, or have a few drinks to take the edge...
The Cost of Silent Boundaries

The Cost of Silent Boundaries

Someone asks you to take on an extra project at work, or your partner asks you to handle a heavy logistical task on your only day off. You are already completely exhausted. Your bandwidth is entirely tapped out. But instead of stating that reality, you just swallow...
The Weight of Unmade Decisions

The Weight of Unmade Decisions

A lot of men are walking around completely exhausted, assuming the drain is purely physical. We blame the demanding schedule, the lack of sleep, or the relentless pace of the daily grind. We try to fix the fatigue with an extra cup of coffee, a weekend off, or a new...