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Presence: Being here and now
Most of the time we’re not really here. We’re reliving something that hurt us, or bracing for something that hasn’t happened yet: We are somewhere else, deep in thought, but far from present.Our minds constantly run simulations: Whether it be by replaying...
You don’t have to have it all figured out
Many of us have picked up the belief that by a certain age, a specific milestone, or after a particular experience, we should have it all figured out: Our purpose, our plan, our relationships, our dream, and our mission.We sometimes fall for the trap of...
Brotherhood is built, not found
Brotherhood doesn’t just happen: It’s not something you magically stumble into just because you happen to be in a room full of other men. It’s not created through surface-level conversations or shared hobbies alone. Brotherhood is built: Intentionally, patiently, and...
Reconnecting with your purpose
Reconnecting with your purpose There comes a point in every man’s life where discipline starts to slip. You're no longer showing up the way you used to. You feel tired; not just in your body, but in your spirit. Your routines feel hollow, and your drive feels off....
The trap of comfort
Comfort feels good until it quietly starts to erode the very things that gave us the good life in the first place. We work hard to build something: A career, a home, a relationship, a routine. And when things finally feel stable, there’s a sigh of relief. We’ve earned...
What are you doing that doesn’t serve you?
Asking the real questions takes honesty: Not the dramatic big questions, but the subtle and uncomfortable ones. In last week's group call, one of those questions emerged: What am I doing that doesn’t serve me? There are things we are doing that we know, deep down,...
What happens inside a men’s circle
Many men walk into their first men’s circle with no idea what to expect. While that can make the experience honest, it can also lead to confusion or unnecessary nervousness: Maybe they were invited to a men’s circle by a friend, or maybe they found it in a moment of...
How to have the conversation you dread
If we want to put things simply, it’s way easier to ghost someone, avoid a certain topic, or wait for our relationships to drift away than it is to sit down and have a conversation we’ve been avoiding. But that thing we’ve been carrying, whether it’s resentment, pain,...
Showing up without performing
Most of us have lived our whole lives wearing masks we didn’t know we had in the first place. We act calm and collected when we’re overwhelmed. We act grounded when we’re actually spiraling. We pretend not to care when we care deeply… and although it helps us survive,...