Staying in the Fire

Staying in the Fire

During the container in Costa Rica, the men stepped into the Temazcal. For those who have never experienced a traditional sweat lodge, it is not a sauna meant for relaxation. It is pitch black. The stones are blazing. The heat is heavy, oppressive, and entirely...
The Mirror Of The Pack

The Mirror Of The Pack

  There is a massive lie we tell ourselves about what it takes to heal, to grow, or to change. We believe it has to be a solo mission. The default male instinct when things get heavy is to withdraw. You isolate. You put your head down, read the books, listen to...
The Lone Wolf Myth

The Lone Wolf Myth

There is a romanticized image that modern culture has sold to men, and most of us have bought it at wholesale price. It’s the image of the lone wolf. He is the stoic, silent operator. He carries the weight of his family, his business, and his life completely on his...
Who are the Men Around you?

Who are the Men Around you?

There is a quiet truth that most men only begin to understand later in life: the people around you are never neutral. The conversations you have, the attitudes you absorb, and the standards that are silently accepted within your circle slowly shape the kind of man you...