Challenging Moments Shape Us

Challenging Moments Shape Us

Most men don’t remember the easy seasons of their lives with much clarity. The days where everything flowed, where nothing was demanded of them, tend to blur together over time. What stays with us instead are the moments that tested us: the moments that asked...
Finding yourself through action

Finding yourself through action

For many men, the search for identity begins in the mind. We think, analyze, plan, and replay our past. We ask ourselves, Who am I? What do I want? What’s my purpose? But the mind alone can only take us so far. Thinking is useful, but it cannot fully reveal the depth...
Why consistency beats intensity

Why consistency beats intensity

We live in a world that glorifies intensity. We chase breakthroughs, quick fixes, and “big moments”: that one experience, one book, or one insight that will finally change everything. But, as we know, real transformation doesn’t happen instantly; it happens through...
Bringing the retreat back home

Bringing the retreat back home

The retreat may be over, but the work isn’t: This is where the real work begins. For three days in Costa Rica, we set aside our routines, distractions, and armor. We gathered as men who were ready to face ourselves and to remember what it feels like to be alive,...
Living vs Surviving

Living vs Surviving

Most men know what it is to be stuck in “survival mode” instead of actually living. On the outside, they both look the same: Work gets done, bills are paid, responsibilities are met. But inside, a man in survival mode can feel disconnected, drained, stuck, or...
The myth of “someday”

The myth of “someday”

How many times have we told ourselves: “I’ll start when things slow down… I’ll take action once I feel ready… Next year, I’ll finally do it.” The problem is that “someday” never arrives. Life doesn’t slow down. Readiness doesn’t magically appear. And waiting only...